It’s Amazing How People Forget….

times helped out

As I sit and think about something’s that have taken place in the past few weeks, maybe even months, it amazes me how soon people forget how much you’ve been there for them no matter what. It amazes me that when they know they will be in need of something they call, text, send e-mails, and even Facebook messages checking on you, asking how your doing like the really care, then all of a sudden you’re hit with the real reason, only though at that moment you don’t know it’s the real reason, they need something from you. So with being the person that I am; and I know I’m not the only one like this, I extend the help that they need no matter what I may have going on. Now lets fast forward a few months and it just so happens you need something, now you can’t get a phone call answered, and text or e-mail returned and they go missing from Facebook, not missing like they deleted you but missing as if they are scared to post or comment on your stuff because you will know that they are out there.

Now let’s say someone you have helped numerous times finally says if you need anything just ask me and when you ask them it seems as though they want you to jump through hoops for them to give you the help that you need. As if they get pleasure out of seeing you down knowing they can help you but wants you to do this and do that. I know everyone is not religious, I know everyone is not saved or believe in God, but I am I do and I do so therefore I know if He sent that person to help you you would not have to go through hell and high water just to get the help. They would give the help freely without attachments or expectations, or wanting something from you in the process. They wouldn’t hold out the help trying to make you do something with them or for them, they wouldn’t try and make you feel like less of a person because you need their help. God don’t work that way! Some may say I’m wrong but I really don’t believe so, so at this point I need no one to ask me for anything. See I am that person that everyone would come to when they needed help no matter what kind I was always there for whoever, I always made it a point to help anyway I could. I have given my last to make sure someone else needs were met before mine.
So like I said it truly amazes me that people tend to forget all you have done for them as soon as they feel they are doing better and don’t need you or your help anymore. It amazes me that people you have went out your way for actually offers the help but wants you to jump through hoops to get it. I’m not a circus clown or seal so therefore I will not jump through hoops just to help you feel superior.
Just remember this the same one that you left standing will be the same one you will soon need again for something, I just hope that someone is not me because at this point the only answer anyone gets from me for now on is NO!!

Answer is No Smurf



One comment

  1. Mona · July 31, 2014

    It’s amazing that i found this because i am sooo feeling this way right now! I have bent over backwards n jumped through hoops to help people but now that the roles have reversed and i have become on the receiving end of that help all i get is a no! !! And if someone does do anything for me i have to hear about it for the rest of my life and in my opinion that is just as bad as not doing it at all. It’s sad but some people just power and ego trip like that! I’m saved as well so i find solace in the fact that the season will eventually come to an end and i will be ok soon enough. But this kind of people had better just pray that they remain on top because the same people you meet going up the latter you see again going down! !!

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