It’s Hard

Published May 15, 2013 by chellebooker

ImageIn life most of the time we’ve been told that if you want something then go after it. Well some people have taken that literally and if they have their eyes set on a person they will pursue that person with hopes of winning them, but what happens when it seems like your chasing and seeking is all in vain? You see for most of us it’s hard to wait around for something you know might never happen; but it’s even harder to give up when you think it’s everything you’ve ever wanted. At that point what do you do, do you continue to wait or do you simply walk away and say if it’s meant to be it will be. You see the quicker we learn that not everyone will love us like we love them we may actually save ourselves a lot of heartbreak and heartache and time. It amazes me though how someone can break our heart and we can still love them with all the little broken pieces. When do you say enough is enough and give up, or do you just continue to stick around with hopes that maybe just maybe they may start to look at you like you look at them. Understand this, if a person is not willing to invest the same amount time into you that you are willing to invest into them then it may just be time to pick up and move on. Learning and knowing when to cut your loses is one of the best things you will ever learn in your life. But you won’t learn or know this until you know your own worth as a person be it male or female, we all should know our worth and never settle for the sake of not being alone. You see it’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind, someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the walls you’ve built up around your mind and heart and let them inside. So sometimes giving up may not be that bad if it’s going to allow the right person to come into your life. You know it’s not all about who we want, most of the time it’s about who we need!!

 

 

 

CHELLE B.

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